When we areyoung we don’t think about the death, we do what we think is right, we planwhat we’ll do tomorrow, where we’ll go for trip next month but as we grow oldand reach the end of our lives, the weight of regrets increases. Many nursesand doctors who take care of old ill people, whose ends are near talk about theregrets they have in life. They get more emotional and afraid about the death;they don’t want to talk about this topic.
As a family member you should never make themfeel that way. Make them understand there is nothing to regret. Here are thetop regrets that dying hospital patients have.
Read it so that you won’t haveany regret like them in your old age. 1- Regret of not living the life of ourown choiceMost of the adults have regrets that they had no choice rather thanleaving their dreams. They did so many things under pressure of family or undersociety. They regret that sacrificed their dreams. We always don’t do most ofthe things because we are afraid that what people will think of you.
Live your life to the fullest because itreally makes you makes you happy. Everyone has to die anyway so it’s better todo die without any regrets. 2- Regret of working so muchWe work so hard to achieve success, to earn more money so that you andyour family can live a happy life. But in run of money we miss the family time;we don’t spend time with our kids, our friends. We lost the emotional connectionwith them.Money is important but family is everything. Don’t work so hard that you forgetabout others.
3- Regret of not showing their feelingWe love someone but we don’t express it to tell them because we areafraid of losing them. And sometimes it happens that you don’t like somethingabout anyone but you can’t tell, because it can affect your relationship withthem, so you live with that for your whole life. And at the end you think thatyou must have told them, it will haunt you till your end. 4- Regret of not living a happy lifeYou get so tired and frustrated sometimes that you react to happysituations also in wrong way.
So many people even don’t know what makes themhappy. And some people connect their happiness with money and luxury. Do things that make you happy, happiness costs you nothings why youshould not have.5- Regret of not having so many thingsWhen you get old you got no friends to meet or to visit, it is a scarydream. People get so involve in other things that they forget about the friends.
Create friendship that stays with you forever.