“We’ve only been together for a short time, but I feel as if I’ve known him for years. The same with Michael. I feel as if I’ve known him for years too. It kind of makes me glad that God didn’t take me up on my ‘I’d rather die than meet my father’ statements” (164).
As you grow closer to someone, you begin to see a side of them that you never thought could exist. People often have a certain image of a person that can only be changed once certain actions or words are recognized. Josephine Alibrandi, a 17 year old girl in Melina Marchetta’s Looking for Alibrandi, grew up with the absence of her father. When Michael Andretti, Josephine’s father, comes in to her life, she is sure that she does not want him to be a part of it. Although, when Josie looks past Michael’s mistakes, she recognizes that he is caring, empathetic and dependable. Firstly, Josie now recognizes that Michael Andretti is caring. Michael offers Josie a job at the chamber where he works. When Michael hears that Josie works at McDonalds, he questions whether it is safe for her to be there at night.
This shows his care for Josie because he is concerned about her well-being. Michael then suggests to Josie, “How about you come and work for me at the chamber? You can do photocopying and help the secretaries” (127). By giving Josie this opportunity, Michael is being a caring person because he is thinking of how it is beneficial to her. For example, she can work in a safer environment, earn money independently, and gain experience in a chamber.
Furthermore, Michael decides to stay with Josie instead of moving back to Adelaide. Josie tells Michael that she will miss him when he leaves, to which he responds, “I’m not going back. I’ve bought a house in Balmain” (244). This can be seen as a caring action because Michael wants to continue to take care of Josie and be present in her life. With this in mind, Michael has a room for Josie to stay .